Episodes

Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks In today’s episode of ABC’s of Parenting Adult Children, James sits down with Mary Wilcox Smith for a powerful conversation about the real challenges parents face when communicating with teens and young adults. No canned questions. No surface-level advice. This episode goes straight into the heart of emotional distance, conflict, silence, and rebuilding trust. We explore: Why communication breaks down between parents and young adults How to ...

Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks Parenting Adult Children Through Disability, Resilience, and Trust James Moffitt speaks with Ken Kunken about fatherhood, identity, and raising three sons while living with quadriplegia. The conversation explores what strength looks like when a father cannot rely on physical ability, and how trust, patience, and presence shaped Ken’s relationship with his sons.Ken also shares his story as a student, attorney, author, and caregiver, including...

Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks Letting Go Without Losing Love: Communication, Boundaries, and Adult Children James Moffitt talks with Rebecca Mullen, a relationship coach, writer, and author of Six Steps to Better Marriage Communication, about how parents can stay close to adult children without slipping into control, guilt, or mixed signals. The conversation centers on healthier communication, especially how to respect grown children as independent adults while still kee...

Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks Healing, Boundaries, and Grace in Parenting Adult Children In this episode of ABCs of Parenting Adult Children, host James Moffitt speaks with Dr. Beth Long, a licensed professional counselor, board certified behavior analyst, and therapist who works with children, families, and parents navigating adult children. They discuss how childhood patterns show up in parenting, how to recognize triggers, and how grace and emotional regulation can re...

Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks The Father, the Son, and the Aha Moment with Steve Barton This episode focuses on the shift from parenting children to relating with adult children as equals, with Steve Barton sharing hard-won lessons from his own family and coaching work. James Moffitt and Steve discuss communication, boundaries, and how to stay connected without overstepping.Steve Barton, owner of Steve Barton Coaching and co-author of The Father, the Son, and the Aha Mom...

Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks Healing the Past, Parenting with Grace This conversation follows host James Moffitt and Dr. Carla Kataria as they explore how childhood experiences shape our emotional patterns, parenting style, and the way we support young adults. The episode focuses on healing, emotional regulation, autonomy, and the grace parents need as their children move into adulthood.In this episode: Dr. Carla Kataria introduces her work as an elite mindset co...

Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks Parenting advice to help you stop feeling guilty. Learn how to be kinder to yourself while navigating the challenges of raising kids. Being a parent is undeniably difficult, and it is common to worry about making mistakes with your children. This video offers perspective on the pressure many parents place on themselves, providing a reminder that learning as you go is a natural part of the journey. If you often feel guilty about your parenti...

Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks Parenting Adult Children, Unconditional Love, and Supporting LGBTQ Families This episode brings together James Moffitt and Ron Platt of the National Association for Single and Divorced Families to talk about parenting adult children, family boundaries, and how support systems can change lives. Ron also shares the story behind NASDF and its divorce support insurance product, plus how fostering and adoption reshaped his understanding of uncond...

Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks In this powerful episode of ABC’s of Parenting Adult Children, James sits down with Ronald Platt, a man whose wisdom, humility, and lived experience bring clarity to one of the most challenging seasons of family life — learning how to parent when your children are grown. Ronald shares heartfelt stories and hard-earned insights about navigating expectations, respecting independence, rebuilding trust, and staying connected through life’s tra...

Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks In this episode, Jody Hill, mom of four, speaker, and best-selling author of The Parent's Secret Superpower: Raising Confident and Capable Kids, shares one of her Superpower Strategies from the POWer Parent Method, the framework at the heart of her course, that helps parents raise confident, capable kids. Drawing on her own experience, Jody walks through how she's lived out this strategy with her own kids, past and present, and shows you how yo...

Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks Parenting Adult Children with Grace, Humility, and Connection Pastor and author Scott LaPierre joins James Moffitt to talk about the shift parents must make when their children become adults. The conversation focuses on moving from control to guidance, keeping your child’s heart, and staying connected without slipping into criticism or frustration. Scott also shares how marriage, fatherhood, and biblical teaching have shaped the way he think...

Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks Discover practical insights and compassionate strategies to navigate the generational patterns, emotional reactions, and relationship dynamics that shape your parenting journey. In this episode, trauma-informed coach Lattie Ghanem shares how moms can identify triggers, release guilt, and foster a healthy, connected family environment—no matter where you are in your parenting path. Main topics: The neurobiological basis of parental rea...

Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks In this episode, James Moffitt welcomes Emily Jacobson, a somatic coach, to discuss navigating the evolving relationship with adult children. They explore communication, boundaries, emotional regulation, and the importance of understanding developmental stages to foster stronger connections. The transition from parent to mentor/support role as children become adults and brain development timelines Mindset shifts for parents: rec...

Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks Unlocking Your Parenting Superpower: The Power of Words with Jody Hill Discover how your everyday words can shape your child's confidence, identity, and future. In this episode, parenting expert Jody Hill shares practical strategies rooted in science and faith to help parents influence their children positively through intentional communication. Key Topics How words impact a child's self-belief and confidenceThe importance of modeling respec...

Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks Navigating Parenthood and Adult Relationships: Insights on Connection, Needs, and Digital Influence In this episode, James Moffitt and guest Nathan Graham explore the complex journey of staying connected with adult children, the underlying needs driving behaviors like gaming and social media use, and practical strategies for healthy boundaries. Main Topics: The core human needs: certainty, adventure, significance, and love connectionHow mode...

Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks Parenting Through Crisis, Grief, and Resilience: An In-Depth ConversationThis episode explores the raw reality of parenting children with complex needs, navigating grief from personal loss, and finding resilience amidst life's unpredictable challenges. Join us as we share heartfelt stories, personal growth, and actionable insights for families facing difficult journeys.Main Topics Covered: Jessica’s journey managing parenting children with a...

Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks In this episode of ABC's The Parenting Adult Children Podcast, host James Moffitt shares valuable resources, survey insights, and compassionate advice for parents navigating the complex emotions and challenges of adult children. Whether you're facing communication struggles, boundary setting, or emotional hurdles, this episode provides practical tools and encouragement to help you find hope and support. Main Topics: Overview of ...

Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks Parenting a Child with Autism: Insights from Paul VossIn this episode, Paul Voss shares his journey as a father of eight, including a daughter diagnosed with autism, and how his experiences have shaped his approach to parenting, systematizing family routines, and advocating for his children. His story offers practical advice and hope for parents navigating similar challenges. Key Topics Covered: Paul’s personal background and motivation for ...

Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks In this episode of ABC's of Parenting Adult Children, host James Moffitt is joined by Jonathan Utley of Light Tunes Animation. They explore how faith, creativity, and media shape the development of young adults and provide practical advice for parents and grandparents navigating screen time, storytelling, and faith-based content. <|KEY TOPICS|> The importance of nurturing creativity and gifts in children from an early ageImpact of fait...

Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks In this episode of ABC's Parenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt speaks with Kenneth Mims, founder of the Neurodiversity Education Research Center and Science Prep Academy. They discuss the importance of inclusive education for autistic learners, the challenges faced by parents and educators, and the innovative teaching methods employed at Mims' school. Kenneth shares his personal journey with autism, the societal changes in und...

Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks Parenting Beyond the Nest: Navigating Relationships, Faith, and Boundaries with Angela CaldwellJoin James Moffitt and Angela Caldwell as they explore the ongoing journey of parenting adult children. From redefining boundaries and fostering respect to the role of faith and managing conflict, this episode offers practical insights for parents supporting their children through the complexities of adulthood.In this episode: The evolution o...

Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks Navigating High Conflict Divorce and Co-Parenting Challenges with Lisa Johnson In this episode, Lisa Johnson, a high conflict divorce strategist and legal advocate, shares her inspiring story of resilience and expertise in managing complex family court issues. Whether you're facing separation, custody battles, or co-parenting with a difficult ex, this episode offers real insights, practical tools, and hope. Key Topics Lisa's personal journey...

Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks Building Stronger Relationships with Adult Children: Practical Strategies from The Love Doctor Discover actionable insights from Anil Gupta, known as The Love Doctor, on how to foster healthier, more connected relationships with your adult children. This podcast emphasizes the importance of communication, boundary-setting, and resilience in navigating mature family dynamics. In this episode: How societal changes and technology impact family ...

Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks In this episode of ABC's Apparenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt speaks with Desiree Taylor about the complexities of parenting adult children. They discuss the transition from caregiver to mentor, the importance of communication and respecting boundaries, and how to navigate conflicts without damaging relationships. Desiree shares her personal experiences and insights on supporting adult children through struggles, handling e...